Lifting the veil of silence. Removing the guilt and shame. The power to heal is within you.

As a probation officer (UK) and domestic violence trainer I recognised early that men and women were not being listened to. I decided that not only should people be heard, they should be given the reins to make their own decisions from the beginning. That’s what I do - I’m the compass that’s going to guide you.

Unspoken pain needs to be released, but you do’nt have to speak about it to do that. You need a trauma-informed practitioner to guide you. It allows you to trust yourself and begin creating the life you want. No guilt, no judgement.

As a trauma facilitator (ACCPH certified) I create safe spaces for men and women to heal from invisible, hidden pain. Whether you’re going through a divorce, are already divorced, or have experienced relationship, childhood, or generational trauma, I will help you heal so you can go from being Invisible to Visible.

To grow, you need to be listened to and heard - two distinct skills. These skills allow you to go from Unheard to Heard.

To progress, you need to learn how to step into being you, slowly. This allows you to go from Unseen to Seen.

I give you the reins and provide tools to help you make and take the decisions you want.

Clients have described my program as being ‘an evolutionary journey of self-discovery’, and told me that ‘even my mum is sleeping more comfortably knowing I’m on this healing journey with you, Ruby!’.

Take the first step and call or email me. I invite you to explore Define Yourself, my Signature Program.

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Learning

Learn definitions of words used in criminal justice. Victims, Practitioners and Muslim Specific terms are shared alongside resources such as articles and videos (on the Practitioners page) to help you in your journey.

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  • "I learnt to separate culture from religion in my decision making processes." (Bespoke 1:1)

    A.N. 2020, London, UK

  • "The Bespoke 1:1 validated my feelings with evidence and fact. I learnt how patriarchy affected my life and how culture governed my thought processes."

    T.S. 2021, England

  • "I would recommend this unreservedly. The programme moves you forward, provides a plan and gives strategies to use. The delivery was great - I shared things I'd never shared."

    M.C. 2021 - Wales, UK

  • "I found the programme was a constructive way to revisit my past, it helped me review traumatic events in my life that I had regrets about - I had major breakthroughs. I really enjoyed the mind map, it helped me get in touch with my feelings and identify my emotions."

    N.W. 2021 - Florida, USA

  • "If I’d had all this information before, I wouldn’t have wasted 7 years of my life. I would have left him earlier and wouldn’t have suffered as much. If you know your rights, where to go and what to do it changes everything - there’s help out there."

    I.N. 2021 - London, England (completed both programs)

  • “Ruby, you need to write a book about what you taught me then take that book and tour the USA. Two sessions with you have been more useful for me than 7 years of counselling.”

    K.C. 2001, Florida USA

  • "I thought I’d overcome my issues but they all started coming out - With the domestic violence programme I learnt how to deal with abuse from my husband and family. With the trauma programme I learnt how to techniques to cope with my depression - I learnt how not to keep falling back into the same cycle."

    F.A. 2021 - South West England (completed both programs)

  • "You’re the bridge where East meets West. I feel I can explore and ask questions. I know I can simply be me."

    S.L 1983 - London, England