I’ve been working with women for over 30 years and understand the pain of abusive relationships, narcissism, coercive control, and how to work with different agencies. I began working with men on probation in 2007 and quickly realised that their lives were littered with unresolved trauma. I could see that no one was listening but I am.

I decided to make my program Define Yourself! available for everyone when women began telling me they had become independent of their abusers because I shared my knowledge with them. 

I’ve been delivering the BeyondTrauma program since 2021 and I now train professionals to become trauma informed (2025).

The way that I work is not to ask intrusive questions, but to allow everyone to share if they wish to. I’ll provide you with resources and explain how everything fits together.

For more information please email on: info.inshiraa@gmail.com.